英语听力软件：没有错误，只有教训23 There are no mistakes, only lessons 没有错误，只有教训 Human growth is a process of experimentation, trial, and error ultimately leading to wisdom. 人类的成长是一个经受,试验和最终失败而引向才智的过程。 Each time you choose to trust yourself and take action, you can never quite be certaion how the situation will turn out. 每次你选择信任自己,开头实行行动时,你绝不会知道这个状况会如何。 Sometimes you are victorious, and sometimes you become disillusioned. 又是你是胜者，但是有时你又会幻灭。 The failed experiments, however, are no less valuable than the experiments that ultimately prove successful; in fact, you usually learn more from your perceived “failures“ than you do from your perceived “success“. 然而，失败的经受远远高于胜利，事实上，你从失败里学到的比在胜利里学到的更多。 If you have made what you perceive to be a mistake or failed to live up to your own expectations, you will most likely put up a barrier between your essence and the part of you that is the alleged wrong-doer. 假如你自责犯了一个错误或辜负了自己的期望，你将很可能在你胜利和失败之间竖起一道障碍。 However, perceiving past actions as mistakes implies guilt and blame, and it is not possible to learn anything meaning while you are engaged in blaming. 然而,为过去的行为内疚、自责都是错误的，当你在忙着自责的时候，它不会让你学到什么。 Therefore, forgiveness is required when you are harshly judging yourself. Forgiveness is the act of erasing an emotional debt. There are four kinds of forgiveness. 因此，当你苛刻要求自己的时候，你需要原谅你自己。宽恕是一种消退情感负担的行为，有四种宽恕： The first is beginner forgiveness for yourself. 第一：从原谅自己开头。 The second of forgiveness is beginner forgiveness for another. 其次：原谅别人 The third kind of forgiveness is ad...
