1.2巧言令色,鲜矣仁。Themastersaid,"clevertalkandapretentiousmanner"areseldomfoundintheGood.1.3吾日三省吾身。为人谋,而不忠乎?与朋友交,而不信乎?传,不习乎?EverydayIexaminemyselfonthesethreepoints:inactingonbehalfofothers,haveIalwaysbeenloyaltotheirinterests?Inintercoursewithmyfriends,haveialwaysbeentruetomyword?Haveifailedtorepeatthepreceptsthathavebeenhandeddowntome?1.4行有余力,则以学文。If,whenallthatisdone,hehasanyenergytospare,thenlethimstudythepolittearts.1.5贤贤易色;事父母能竭其力,事君能致其身;与朋友交,言而有信。虽曰未学,吾必谓之学矣。Amanwhotreatshisbettersasbetters,wearsanairofrespect,whointoservingfatherandmotherknowshowtoputhiswholestrength,whointheserviceofhisprincewilllaydownhislife,whoinintercoursewithfriendsistruetohisword-othersmaysayofhimthathestilllackseducation,butiformypartshouldcertainlycallhimaneducatedman.1.6过则勿惮改。Ifhefindshehasmadeamistake,thenhemustnotbeafraidofadmittingthefactandamendinghisways.(知错能改不算错,知错不改错上加错。)1.7慎终追远,民德归厚矣。WhenproperrespecttowardsthedeadisshownattheEndandcontinuedaftertheyarefarawaythemoralforceofapeoplehasreacheditshighestpoint.(祖先敬重这是多好的美德,但是现代社会,这种美德岌岌可危。)1.8夫子温、良、恭、俭、让以得之(政policy)oOurmastergetsthingsbybeingcordial,frank,courteous,temperate,deferential.ThatisourMaster'swayofenquiring--averydifferentmatter.(孑L子的为人就是这五个字,而这五个字值得学习和实践一辈子,孔子可爱的地方就在于他提出的出世之道很朴实。)1.9.父在观其志,父没观其行,三年无改于父之道,可谓孝矣。Whileaman'sfatherisalive,youcanonlyseehisintentions;itiswhenhisfatherdiesthatyoudiscoverwhetherornotheiscapableofcarryingthemout.Ifforthewholethreeyearsofmourninghemanagestocarryonthehouseholdexactlyasinhisfatherday,thenheisagoodsonindeed.孔子学说可以说“成"也孝,“败"也孝。也许这在前现代中是合理的,因为黑格尔说得好“存在就是合理的”。)1.10礼之用,和为贵。Intheusagesofritualitisharmonythatisprized.(曾经在学校开过一门选修课叫《生活基本礼仪》,的确礼节的精髓是“和”,而和是中国古代传统哲学思想的精髓之一。所以,中国是礼仪之邦。)1.11君子食无求饱,居无求安,敏于事而慎于言,就有道而正焉,可谓好学也已。Agentlemanwhonevergoesoneatingtillheissated,whodoesnotdemandcomfortinhishome,whoisdiligentinbusinessandcautiousinspeech,whoassociateswiththosethatpossesstheWayandtherebycorrectshisownfaults--suchaonemayindeedbesaidtohaveatasteforlearning.(“好学"的定义,的确很准确、很直观。)1.12.贫而无谄(查字典:谄媚),富而无骄,“未若贫而乐道,富而好礼者也。”Poorwithoutcadging,richwithoutswagger.Notbadbutnotbetterthan“poor,yetdelightingintheWay,rich,yetastudentofritual."(经常听到“为富不仁"的说法,其实更常看到的是“为富不礼”的情况。还有一种更“惨不忍睹”的现象是:贫而谄媚。囊中羞涩的人自然底气不足,这就是“世道”。)1.13.如切如磋,如琢如磨。Asthingcut,asthingfiled,asthingchiseled,asthingpolished.(一个人有没有"德”要看他在“贫富”面前的表现,贫富就像“磨刀石”,只有经过的考验才能够判断一个人的德,所以说道德被康德称之为“实践理性”,他撰写的《实践理性批判》是一本讨论道德的书。)1.14不患人之不己知,患不知人也。Thegoodmandoesnotgrievethatotherpeopledonotrecognizehismerits.Hisonlyanxietyislestheshouldfailtorecognizetheirs.这句话和第一条“人不知而不愠”不是强调和补充吗?不要因为不被了解而忧患,应该担心的是不了解他人。是的首先学会“关心”,才有可能得到“开心”。)2.1为政以德,譬如北辰,居其...