控制好你内心的心流演讲稿eveensler：embraceyourinnergirlgoodmorning.i'mveryhappytobehereinindia.andi'vebeenthinkingalotaboutwhatihavelearnedovertheselastparticularly11yearswithv-dayand"thevaginamonologues，"travelingtheworld，essentiallymeetingwithwomenandgirlsacrosstheplanettostopviolenceagainstwomen.whatiwanttotalkabouttodayisisthisparticularcell，orgroupingofcells，thatisineachandeveryoneofus.andiwanttocallitthegirlcell.andit'sinmenaswellasinwomen.iwantyoutoimaginethatthisparticulargroupingofcellsiscentraltotheevolutionofourspeciesandthecontinuationofthehumanrace.andiwantyouimaginethatatsomepointinhistoryagroupofpowerfulpeopleinvestedinowningandcontrollingtheworldunderstoodthatthesuppressionofthisparticularcell，theoppressionofthesecells，thereinterpretationofthesecells，theunderminingofthesecells，gettingustobelieveintheweaknessofthesecellsandthecrushing，eradicating，destroying，reducingthesecells，basicallybegantheprocessofkillingoffthegirlcell，whichwas，bytheway，patriarchy.iwantyoutoimaginethatthegirlisachipinthehugemacrocosmofcollectiveconsciousness.anditisessentialtobalance，towisdom，andtoactuallythefutureofallofus.andtheniwantyoutoimaginethatthisgirlcelliscompassion，andit'sempathy，andit'spassionitself，andit'svulnerability，andit'sopennessandit'sintensityandit'sassociation，andit'srelationship，anditisintuitive.andthenlet'sthinkhowcompassioninformswisdom，andthatvulnerabilityisourgreateststrength，andthatemotionshaveinherentlogic，whichleadtoradical，appropriate，savingaction.andthenlet'srememberthatwe'vebeentaughttheexacto第1页共10页ppositebythepowersthatbe，thatcompassioncloudsyourthinking，thatitgetsintheway，thatvulnerabilityisweakness，thatemotionsarenottobetrusted，andyou'renotsupposedtotakethingspersonally，whichisoneofmyfavorites.ithinkthewholeworldhasessentiallybeenbroughtupnottobeagirl.howdowebringupboys。whatdoesitmeantobeaboy。tobeaboyreallymeansnottobeagirl.tobeamanmeansnottobeagirl.tobeawomanmeansnottobeagirl.tobestrongmeansnottobeagirl.tobealeadermeansnottobeagirl.iactuallythinkthatbeingagirlissopowerfulthatwe'vehadtotraineveryonenottobethat.（laughter）andi'dalsoliketosaythattheironyofcourse，isthatdenyinggirl，suppressinggirl，suppressingemotion，refusingfeelinghasleadthushere.wherewehavenowcometoliveinaworldwherethemostextremeformsofviolencethemosthorrificpoverty，genocide，massrapes，thedestructionoftheearth，iscompletelyoutofcontrol.andbecausewehavesuppressedourgirlcells，andsuppressedourgirl-ship，wedonotfeelwhatisgoingon.so，wearenotbeingchargedwiththeadequateresponsetowhatishappening.iwanttotalkalittlebitaboutthedemocraticrepublicofcongo.forme，itwastheturningpointofmylife.ihavespentalotoftimethereinthelastthreeyears.ifeeluptothatpointihadseenalotintheworld，alotofviolence.iessentiallylivedintherapeminesoftheworldforthelast12years.butthedemocraticrepublicofcongoreallywastheturningpointinmysoul.iwentandispenttimeinaplacecalledbukavuinahospitalcalledthepanzihospital，withadoctorwhowasaclosetoasaintasanypersoni'veevermet.hisnameisdr.denismukwege.and，inthecongo，forthoseofyouwhodon'tknow，therehasbeenawarragingforthelast12years，awarthathaskillednearlysixmillionpeople.itisestimatedthatsomewherebetween300，000and500，000womenhavebeenrapedthere.第2页共10页whenispentmyfirstweeksatpanzihospitalisatwithwomenwhosatandlinedupeverydaytotellmeth...
