目录以《国风》为例，浅析《诗经》中的夫妻关系...............................................................................................1一、不平等的夫妻关系......................................................................................................................................2（一）不平等夫妻关系的主要体现........................................................................................................2（二）造成不平等夫妻关系的原因........................................................................................................4二、平等的夫妻关系..........................................................................................................................................6（一）平等的夫妻关系的表现................................................................................................................6（二）平等夫妻关系的原因....................................................................................................................7三、小结..............................................................................................................................................................8参考文献..............................................................................................................................................................8以《国风》为例，浅析《诗经》中的夫妻关系摘要《诗经·国风》收录了西周初年至春秋时代的民歌，记录了当时人民喜怒哀乐的真实生活，而作为必不可少的夫妻关系，《国风》也记录在册，可大致分为不平等和平等的夫妻关系两种。就不平等的夫妻关系而言，主要体现为女子在情感中处于被动、女子在婚姻中不被尊重、女子是婚姻失败后悲剧的承担者，就其原因而言，根本原因是男子居于统治地位的经济地位，重要原因是男尊女卑的社会风气。就平等的夫妻关系而言，主要变现为平民夫妻之间的平淡及温馨和贵族夫妻之间权益制衡的相敬如宾，平民夫妻之间共同为家庭的付出是他们得以平等相处的基础，贵族夫妻之间权益的制衡与各取所需是他们之所以结合以及婚后相处的重要原因。通过对《国风》中夫妻关系的分析，可以给现代夫妻相处以启发，使其更懂得夫妻相处之道。关键词夫妻关系；平等；不平等Inthecaseof“Guofeng”,analyzingtherelationshipbetweenthecoupleinthe“bookofsongs”Abstractthe“bookofsongsguofeng”recordedfolksongswhichreflectedthereallifeofeveryone’sjoysandsorrowsfromearlyyearsofthewesternzhoudynastytothespringandautumnperiod,includingtheessentialrelationshipofcoupleswhichcanbedividedintotheequaloneandunequalone.Asfortheequalone,itsperformancearewomenarepassiveinthefeelings、womenarenotrespectedinthemarriageandwomenaretheundertakerofthefailureofthemarriage.Therootcauseismen’sdominanceintheeconomicstatusandtheimportantreasonisthegeneralmoodofsocietyoffemalesubordination.Asfortheunequalone,itsperformancesaretheflatandsweetintheciviliansandtheparentalrelationshipinthenoble.Theciviliancouples’paysfortheirfamilyisthebasisoftheirequalrelationship.Togetwhattheywantiswhythenoblecouplesgettogether.Thoughtheanalysisoftheserelationships,moderncouplescanbeinspiredandgetbetterintheirlives.孔子在《易经》中《易传》里说“有天地，然后有万物。有万物，而后有阴阳。有阴阳，然后有男女。有男女，然后有夫妇。有夫妇，然后有父子。有父子，然后有君臣。有君臣，然后有上下。有上下，然后礼仪有所错。”①一切社会问题，都是从男女问题开始。而在男女问题之中，最引人关注的就是夫妻问题。《诗经·国风》作为西周初年至春秋时代的民歌的收录汇总，记载了当时人民喜怒哀乐的真...
