IntroductionHere we talk about the family training difference and social influence between Western and Eastern.Deng xiaoping says,the basic of the modern socity is the talent.the first school of the kids is family.the parents realize family training is very important.it is a big chanllenge for his owm traditional mind.so they intake the mind of the western.What is “culture’’? Culture is not simply knowledge, but includes beliefs, art, morals, and customs, and so on. The word “culture” is a word from latin “cultura,” whose earliest basic meaning was “cultivation,plating,crop.” (http://wenku.baidu.com) Edward B. Tylor, the pioneer English Anthropologist, pointes out the culture is “that complex whole which includes knowledge, beliefs, art, law, morals, customs, and any other capabilities and habits acquired by man as a member of society.” (http://wenku.baidu.com/view/.html) It defines culture as a “complex whole ” and mentioned such a wide range as that culture covers.As we all know, many experts have tried to give culture a definition. No matter how many definitions of culture we have, they still have the common characteristics of culture as folows : 1. Culture is learned 2. Culture is shared 3. Culture is transmitted from generation to genetation 4.Culture is subject to change. With the development of the society, culture is unavoidiably subject to change. These changes result from the development of social elements.HowThe chinese movie,sunflower,chiefly tells us about a story of a chinese family and reflects chinese people’s education methods and values.the American movies,little Miss Sunshine,chiefly tells us a story about an american family,and reflects a typical mode of American family educatin...