可能改变你一生的11个问题11questionsmaychangeyourlifeKeepthislisthandy.Askyourselfthesequestionseveryday--withoutfail.Andthen,basedonyouranswers,takeaction.把这份清单放在手边。每天问问自己下面的问题——一定要回答。然后，基于自己的回答，采取行动。1.Whowouldcrythemostatmyfuneral?在我的葬礼上谁会哭得最凶？Thosearepeoplewholoveyouunconditionally.Startreturningthefeeling.有些人无条件地爱你。开始回报这些感情吧。2.DoIspendenoughtimewiththepeoplewhowouldcrythemostatmyfuneral?我有没有和那些会在我葬礼上哭得最凶的人度过足够多的时间？Probablynot.Eventhoughthosearethepeoplewhoseethegoodinyou,andmakeyoufeelgoodaboutyourself.也许没有。即使他们是那些看到你优点的人，让你感觉良好的人。3.WhowouldIwanttocrythemostatmyfuneral?我会在谁的葬礼上哭得最凶？Chancesarethosearethepeopleyouneglectthemost.Youcareaboutthembutyou'retakingthemforgranted.很有可能是那些最被你忽视的人。你关心他们，但是你总是把他们对你的感情当做理所当然。Stoptakingthemforgranted.开始珍惜他们吧。4.AmIproudtotellpeoplewhereIwork?我会自豪地告诉别人我在哪里工作吗？Ifnot,it'stimetostartlookingelsewhere.Titlescomeandgo.Moneycomesandgoes.Prideisforever.如果不是，该开始找工作了。职位来了又走，金钱也来来去去。只有自豪感是永恒的。5.IsmycompanyabusinessIwouldwantmychildrentorun?我会不会想让孩子来经营公司的业务？Theremaybeaspectsofyourbusinessyouwouldn'twishonyourworstenemy,muchlessyourkids:insufferablecustomers,unbearableemployees,difficultworkingconditions,uncertainlong-termprospects.你的业务中有一些方面你都不希望自己最大的敌人去面对，更不用提自己的孩子了：令人无法忍受的顾客、令人难以忍受的雇员、艰难的工作条件、不确定的长期前景等。Ifyouwouldsaytoyourchild,"No,Iwouldn'twantyoutohavetodealwiththat..."whydoallowyourselftocontinuetodealwiththat?如果你会对孩子说，“不，我不想让你们去处理那些.......”为什么还让自己继续处理呢？Naturallyyouwantyourkidstobehappy.Youalsodeservetobehappy.Listtheproblems,thenfixtheproblems.当然，你希望你的孩子幸福。但你也要开心。列出问题，然后解决问题。Ifyouwantabetterfutureforyourkids,showthemthewaybymakingabetterfutureforyourself.如果你想让孩子有个更好的未来，那你可以让他们看看你是如何让自己的未来更加美好的。6.Doestodayfeeldifferentthanyesterday?今天的感觉是不是和昨天一样？Itshould,ifonlyinaverysmallway.Otherwiseyou'resittingstill.应该只有一小部分相同，否则你就是停滞不前。"No"ensurestodaywillbeexactlythesameasyesterday.Ormaybeworse.说“不”会让今天和昨天一样，也许更糟。8.DoIspendmoneyinsteadoftime?我是不是更喜欢用金钱代替时间？Maybeyoubuyyourkids"stuff"becauseyoufeelguiltyforbeingawaysomuch,ormissingevents,orbeingdistractedmostofthetime.Maybeyoubuyyoursignificantother"stuff"whenyoufeelguiltyaboutnotpayingenoughattentionorshowing,bywordandaction,thatyoucare.也许你给孩子买“礼物”是因为你感到内疚，你觉得自己总不在他们身边或错过了他们的活动，或和他们在一起的时间大部分都在走神。也许你觉得没有足够重视生命中的另一半，或没有通过言语和行为表达出来对他们的足够重视，因为心存愧意而给对方买东西。Ormaybeyouspendmoneyonproductivitytoolsinsteadofputtinginthetimetochangeinefficientworkhabits.Ormaybeyoubuyexpensivefitnessequipmentandtrendyworkoutgearinsteadofjustsuckingitupandworkingoutmore.也许你花钱买提高效率的工具，而不是花时间改变低效的工作习惯；也许你宁愿买昂贵的健身设备和时尚的运动装备，而不愿认真去锻炼身体。Moneyneverproducesthesameresultsastime.Expensiveclothescan'tgetyouinshape;productivityappscan'tmakeyoumoreefficient...
