面朝大海,春暖花开I m not just talking about a memory problem, although that spossibletoo. 我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的. I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么. And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 然后,在选择适宜的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候. Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话. That s a memory problem. 这是一个记忆问题. I guess that counts too. 我想那很重要. But I m talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么? At one point, there was a reason we do something. 在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由. For long-termprojects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 对于长期工程,我们需要提醒自己原因. It s always could to ask ourselves why. 总是可以问问自己为什么. Why did I start to learn a language? 为什么我开始学习一种语言? Why did I join this club? 为什么我参加这个俱乐部? Why my friend was this person? 为什么我的朋友是这个人? Why did I get married? 为什么我要结婚? If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 假如我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么. I think we need indeed remind us of why. 我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么. Or else it s tough to finish what we started. 否那么很难完成我们所开始的. We stop starting. We quit the club. 我们停止开始.我们退出俱乐部. We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 我们结束我们的友谊.我们的婚姻出现裂痕. There s nothing wrong with asking why. 问为什么没什么问题. In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are d...