Module3InterpersonalRelationships—FriendshipPartOne:TeachingDesign第一部分教学设计Period1:Reading—Roy’sStoryGoalsTolearnaboutInterpersonalRelationships—Friendship●TolearntoreadwithstrategiesProceduresWarmingupbylearningabout▇“friendship”Hello,class.Wearefriendsnow.Butdoyouknow:What“friendship”is?What“aninterpersonalrelationship”is?Friendshipisahumanrelationshipwhichinvolvesmutualknowledge,esteem,andaffection.Friendswillwelcomeeachother'scompanyandexhibitloyaltytowardseachother,oftentothepointofputtingtheother'sinterestsbeforeone'sown.Theirtasteswillbesimilarandmayconverge,andtheywillshareenjoyableactivities.Theywillalsoengageinmutuallyhelpingbehavior,suchasexchangeofadviceandthesharingofhardship.Afriendissomeonewhomayoftendemonstratereciprocatingandreflectivebehaviors.Aninterpersonalrelationshipisasocialassociation,connection,oraffiliationbetweentwoormorepeople.Itvariesindifferinglevelsofintimacyandmodesofconnection,implyingdiscoveryorestablishmentofcommonground,andmaybecenteredaroundsomething(s)sharedincommon.Itsstudyisoneoftheconcernsofthesocialscienceknownassociology,and,toalesserextent,ofpsychologyandanthropology.Beforeyouread▇Pleasegooverthewordlistforthismodule,payingattentiontothepronunciationoftheword,therelationshipbetweenitspronunciationanditsspelling.Whileyouread▇Cut/thesentencesintothoughtgroups,blackenthepredicates,underlinetheusefulexpressionsanddarkentheconnectives.用心爱心专心116号编辑Afteryouread▇CopyalltheusefulexpressionsintoyourExpressionBookandmakeyourownsentenceswiththem.rememberthefirsttime…,standinthecentreofagroupof…,tellajoke,reachthefinalline,burstoutlaughing,aloudhappylaugh,thinktooneself,thenewboyintheclass,fromthenorthofEngland,beofferedabetterjob,loseallone’soldfriends,feelshyandlonely,atone’snewschool,ashynewboy,joinaparticulargroup，asaresult,becomegoodfriends,trusteachother,talkaboutpersonalmatters,inthesameclass,underayearago,beknockedoverbyacar,movetoamuchsmallerhouse,managefinancially,beclosetohisfather,changecompletely,becomesilentandmoody,aclever,hard-workingstudent,loseallinterestinone’swork,seeeachotherfromtimetotime,agroupof…,playfootballtogether,afterschool,goinside,gothroughthepocketsofpeople'scoats,haveawalletinone’shand,feelopen,gobrightred,put…back,rightnow,turnround,walkoutwithoutsayingaword,explainwhy…,atthesametime,smallamountsofmoney,disappearfrom…,haveabigfair,moneyforacharity,bytheendoftheday,makeabout￡500,chattoagroupof..,holdup…for…tosee,withasmile,toone’ssurprise,thenextmorning,thisweekend,thinkaboutthesituationforawhile,ask…aboutthetheft,goupstairs,acoldday,lieonthebackofachair,put…on,put…inthepockets,pull…out,hold…inone’shands,atthatmoment,swingopen,walkin■ReadingthetextagaintofillinthenecessaryinformationRoy’sStoryHowwasDanielatschoolwhenhewastwelve?Havinglostallmyoldfriends,hefeltshyandlonelyathisnewschool.HowwasRoytoDaniel?Roywasoneofthefewpeoplewhowaskindtohim.WhydidRoychange?Justunderayearago,Roy'sfatherwasknockedoverbyacaranddiedafewdayslater.WhatdidtheauthorfindRoydoingoneday?HefoundRoygoingthroughthepocketsofpeople'scoats.WhatdidRoystarttodo?Hestartedavoidinghim.Whathappenedtotheraisedcharitymoney?Themoneyhadbeenstolen.Whatdidtheauthorfind?HefoundalotofpapernotesinRoy’sjacket.WhathappenedatthatThedoorswungopen,andRoywalkedin.用心爱心专心116号编辑moment?■ClosingdownbycontrastingfriendshipwithcomradeshipFriendshipcanbemistakenforcomradeship.Comradeshipisthefeelingofaffinitythatdrawspeopletogetherintimeofwarorwhenpeoplehaveamutualenemyorevenacommongoal.FormerNewYorkTimeswarcorrespondentChrisHedgeshaswritten:"Wefeelinwartimecomradeship.Weconfusethiswithfriendship,withlove.Therearethose,whowillinsistthatthecomradeshipofwarislove--theexoticglowthatmakesusinwarfeelasonepeople,oneentity,isreal,butthisispartofwar'sintoxication.Asthisfeelingdissipatedintheweeksaftertheattack,therewasakindofnostalgiaforitswarmglowandwartimealwaysbringswithitthiscomradeship,whichistheoppositeoffriendship.Friendsarepredetermined;friendshiptakesplacebetweenmenandwomenwhopossessanintellectualandemotionalaffinityforeachother.Butcomradeship--thatecstaticblissthatcomeswithbelongingtothecrowdinwartime--iswithinourreach.Wecanallhavecomrades."[3]Asawarends,oracommonenemyrecedes,comradesreturntobeingstrangers,wholackfriendshipandhavelittleincommon.用心爱心专心116号编辑
