此资料由网络收集而来，如有侵权请告知上传者立即删除。资料共分享，我们负责传递知识。迈克尔·杰克逊牛津英语励志演讲稿sesofchildrenwhoharboranimosityandresentmenttowardtheirparents,sothatanyoverturethattheirparentsmightundertakewouldbethrownforcefullybackintheirface.tonight,idon'twantanyofustomakethismistake.that'swhyi'mcallinguponalltheworld'schildren–beginningwithallofusheretonight–toforgiveourparents,ifwefeltneglected.forgivethemandteachthemhowtoloveagain.youprobablyweren'tsurprisedtohearthatididnothaveanidyllicchildhood.thestrainandtensionthatexistsinmyrelationshipwithmyownfatheriswelldocumented.myfatherisatoughmanandhepushedmybrothersandmehard,fromtheearliestage,tobethebestperformerswecouldbe.hehadgreatdifficultyshowingaffection.heneverreallytoldmehelovedme.andheneverreallycomplimentedmeeither.ifididagreatshow,hewouldtellmeitwasagoodshow.andifididanokshow,hetoldmeitwasalousyshow.heseemedintent,aboveallelse,onmakingusacommercialsuccess.andatthathewasmorethanadept.myfatherwasamanagerialgeniusandmybrothersandioweourprofessionalsuccess,innosmallmeasure,totheforcefulwaythathepushedus.hetrainedmeasashowmanandunderhisguidanceicouldn'tmissastep.butwhatireallywantedwasadad.iwantedafatherwhoshowedmelove.andmyfatherneverdidthat.heneversaidiloveyouwhilelookingmestraightintheeye,heneverplayedagamewithme.henevergavemeapiggybackride,heneverthrewapillowatme,orawater此资料由网络收集而来，如有侵权请告知上传者立即删除。资料共分享，我们负责传递知识。balloon.butirememberoncewheniwasaboutfouryearsold,therewasalittlecarnivalandhepickedmeupandputmeonapony.itwasatinygesture,probablysomethingheforgotfiveminuteslater.butbecauseofthatmomentihavethisspecialplaceinmyheartforhim.becausethat'showkidsare,thelittlethingsmeansomuchtothemandforme,thatonemomentmeanteverything.ionlyexperienceditthatonetime,butitmademefeelreallygood,abouthimandtheworld.butnowiamafathermyself,andonedayiwasthinkingaboutmyownchildren,princeandparisandhowiwantedthemtothinkofmewhentheygrowup.tobesure,iwouldlikethemtorememberhowialwayswantedthemwithmewhereveriwent,howialwaystriedtoputthembeforeeverythingelse.buttherearealsochallengesintheirlives.becausemykidsarestalkedbypaparazzi,theycan'talwaysgotoaparkoramoviewithme.sowhatiftheygrowolderandresentme,andhowmychoicesimpactedtheiryouth?whyweren'twegivenanaveragechildhoodlikealltheotherkids,theymightask?andatthatmomentipraythatmychildrenwillgivemethebenefitofthedoubt.thattheywillsaytothemselves:"ourdaddydidthebesthecould,giventheuniquecircumstancesthathefaced.hemaynothavebeenperfect,buthewasawarmanddecentman,whotriedtogiveusalltheloveintheworld."ihopethattheywillalwaysfocusonthepositivethings,onthesacrificesiwillinglymadeforthem,andnotcriticizethethingstheyhadtogiveup,ortheerrorsi'vemade,andwillcertainlycontinuetomake,inraisingthem.forwehaveallbeensomeone'schild,and此资料由网络收集而来，如有侵权请告知上传者立即删除。资料共分享，我们负责传递知识。weknowthatdespitetheverybestofplansandefforts,mistakeswillalwaysoccur.that'sjustbeinghuman.andwhenithinkaboutthis,ofhowihopethatmychildrenwillnotjudgemeunkindly,andwillforgivemyshortcomings,iamforcedtothinkofmyownfatheranddespitemyearlierdenials,iamforcedtoadmitthatmemusthavelovedme.hedidloveme,andiknowthat.therewerelittlethingsthatshowedit.wheniwasakidihadarealsweettooth–weal...
