当我开始爱自己

当我开始爱自己(卓别林)(6页)Good is good, but better carries it.精益求精，善益求善。当我真正开始爱自己WHEN I STARTED LOVING MYSELF查理·卓别林（Charles Chaplin）当我真正开始爱自己，我才认识到，所有的痛苦和情感的折磨，都只是提醒我：活着，不要违反自己的本心。今日我明白了，这叫做『真实』。As I began to love myself,I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth.Today, I know, this is "AUTHENTICITY".当我真正开始爱自己，我才懂得，把自己的愿望强加于人，是多么的无礼，就算我知道，时机并不成熟，那人也还没有做好准备，就算那个人就是我自己，今日我明白了，这叫做『尊重』。As I began to love myself,I understood how much it can offend somebody as I try to force my desires on this person,even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it,and even though this person was me.Today I call it "RESPECT".当我开始爱自己，我不再渴求不同的人生，我知道任何发生在我身边的事情，都是对我成长的邀请。如今，我称之为『成熟』。As I began to love myself,I stopped craving for a different life,and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow.Today I call it "MATURITY".当我开始真正爱自己，我才明白，我其实一直都在正确的时间，正确的地方，发生的一切都恰如其分。由此我得以平静。今日我明白了，这叫做『自信』。As I began to love myself,I understood that at any circumstance,I am in the right place at the right time,and everything happens at the exactly right moment,so I could be calm.Today I call it "SELF-CONFIDENCE".当我开始真正爱自己，我不再牺牲自己的自由时间，不再去勾画什么雄伟的明天。今日我只做有趣和欢乐的事，做自己热爱，让心高兴的事，用我的方式，以我的韵律。今日我明白了，这叫做『单纯』。As I began to love myself,I quit steeling my own time,and I stopped designing huge projects for the future.Today, I only do what brings me joy...