I’m sorry Mr. Headmaster, let me tell you why that approach may fail you。 不好意思，校长先生，我想告诉您不是这样的。I know people who graduated at 21 and didn't get a job until they were 27 。 I know people who graduated late at 25 and they found work immediately. I know people who never went to university， but found what they love at 18. I know people who found a job straight out of college making decent money， but hate what they do. I know people who took gap years and found their purpose.有的人 21 岁毕业，到了 27 岁才找到工作。有的人 25 岁才毕业,但马上就找到了工作。有的人没上过大学,却在 18 岁就找到了热爱的事。有的人一毕业就找到了好工作，赚很多钱，却过的不快乐。有的人选择间隔年去寻找自我。I know people who were so sure about what they were going to do at 16 ， they change their mind at 26. I know people who have children but are single, and I know people who are married but had to wait 8 to 10 years to have children. I know people in relationships who love someone else 。 I know people who love each other but aren't together。有的人在 16 岁就清楚自己需要什么,但在 26 岁时改变了想法.有的人有了孩子，却还是单身。有的人结了婚，却等了 10 年才生孩子。有的人身处一段感情，爱的却是别人.有的人明明彼此相爱，却没有在一起。So my point is everything in life happens according to our time, our clock. You may look at some of your friends and think that they’re ahead of you， maybe some of them you feel are behind ， but everything happens at their own pace. They have their own time and clock and so do you。 Be patient.我想说的是人生中每一件事都取决于我们的时间，你身边有些朋友也许遥遥领先于你，有些朋友也许落后于你,但凡事都有它自己的节奏，他们有他们的节奏，你有你自己的 ,耐心一点。At age 25, Mark Cuban was a bartender in Dallas 。 It took ...
