Unit1KnowingmeKnowingyouThegreatesttrustbetweenmanandmanisthetrustofgivingcounsel.—Bacon人与人之间的最大信任是敢于进言的信任。——培根Itisequallyanerrortotrustallmenornoman.—Seneca信任一切的人和谁也不信任，两者都错。——塞涅卡Tobetrustedisagreatercomplimentthantobeloved.—GeorgeMacDonald受人信任比受人爱戴更可赞美。——乔治·麦克唐纳AfriendisapersonwithwhomImaybesincere.Beforehim，Imaythinkaloud.—Seneca所谓朋友就是我应当坦诚相待的人。在他的面前我将畅所欲言。——塞涅卡Twomenwentonatriptogetherinadesert.Onewhohadbeenhurtbyhisfriendwroteitdowninthesand.Thentheywenton，andtheother，whoselifehadbeensavedbyhisfriend，wroteitdownonastone.Astrangerhappenedtoseewhatthemendidandaskedthemwhytheydidso.Onesaid，“Myfrienddidmewrong，andIwroteitdowninthesand，lettingitinmyheartgonewiththewind.Theothersaid，“Myfriendsavedmylife，andIwroteitdownonastoneasifitwerewithmyheartforever.”Thisstorytellsusweshouldnotalwaysrememberthepeoplewhodouswrong，butforthosewhohelpus，weshouldalwayskeeptheminmind.We'veallbeentaughtthatweshouldhelppeople.Itistherightthingtodoandwillmakeuspopularamongothers.Itmayevenwinusfavorsinreturn.However，wemustberealistic.Wecan'tsayyestoeveryrequest.Ifwedid，wewouldfailorgocrazyforsure.Sometimeswesimplydon'thavethetimetohelp.Inthiscase，wemustknowhowtosaynopolitely.Whenweneedtosayno，hereisonemethodwecantry.First，weshouldtellthetruth.Ifwereallycan'tdosomething，weshouldjustsayno.Second，weshouldremembertorefuserequestspolitely.Wemustcommunicateclearly，butmustalsobesincereandsympathetic.Atruefriendwillunderstand.Finally，weneednotfeelguiltyaboutsayingno.Sometimesrefusingothersistherightthingtodo.Itcansaveusandthemalotoftrouble.Inshort，wecannotpleaseeveryoneallthetime.Refusalisapartoflife.[探索发现]1．Whatwillyoudoifaskedtodosomethingyoucan't?2．Haveyouevermetamanbeingdishonestwithyou?[答案]1.Sayno.2.略
