LettertoaBstudentYourfinalgradeforthecourseisB
Arespectablegrade
Farsuperiortothe"Gentleman'sC"thatservedasthenormacoupleofgenerationsago
ButinthosedaysA'swererare:onlytwooutoftwenty-five,asIrecall
Whateverournormis,ithasshiftedupward,withtheresultthatyouareprobablydisappointedatnotdoingbetter
I'mcertainthatnothingIcansaywillremovethatfeelingofdisappointment,particularlyinaclimatewheregradesdetermineeligibilityforgraduateschoolandspecialprograms
Disappointment
It'sthestuffbaddreamsaremadeof:dreamsoffailure,inadequacy,lossofpositionandgoodrepute
Theessenceofsuccessisthatthere'sneverenoughofittogoroundinazero-sumgamewhereoneperson'swinningmustbeoffsetbyanother'slosing,oneperson'sjoyoffsetbyanother'sdisappointment
You'vegrownupinasocietywherew