此资料由网络收集而来，如有侵权请告知上传者立即删除。资料共分享，我们负责传递知识。TED英语演讲：脆弱不是懦弱与脆弱相比，羞耻(shame)，是一个更加让人觉得恐怖的话题。实际上光谈论这个话题就足以勾起人的羞耻感。下面是小编为大家收集关于TED英语演讲：脆弱不是懦弱，欢迎借鉴参考。TED演讲：脆弱不是懦弱，而是衡量勇气最准确的标尺演讲者：BrenéBrown演讲稿I'mgoingtotellyoualittlebitaboutmyTEDxHoustonTalk.IwokeupthemorningafterIgavethattalkwiththeworstvulnerabilityhangoverofmylife.AndIactuallydidn'tleavemyhouseforaboutthreedays.ThefirsttimeIleftwastomeetafriendforlunch.AndwhenIwalkedin,shewasalreadyatthetable.Isatdown,andshesaid,"God,youlooklikehell."Isaid,"Thanks.Ifeelreally--I'mnotfunctioning."Andshesaid,"What'sgoingon?"AndIsaid,"Ijusttold500peoplethatIbecamearesearchertoavoidvulnerability.Andthatwhenbeingvulnerableemergedfrommydata,asabsolutelyessentialtowhole-heartedliving,Itoldthese500peoplethatIhadabreakdown.Ihadaslidethatsaid'Breakdown.'AtwhatpointdidIthinkthatwasagoodidea?"Andshesaid,"Isawyourtalklive-streamed.Itwasnotreallyyou.Itwasalittledifferentthanwhatyouusuallydo.Butitwasgreat."AndIsaid,"Thiscan'thappen.YouTube,they'reputtingthisthingonYouTube.Andwe'regoingtobetalkingabout600,700people."Andshesaid,"Well,Ithinkit'stoolate."此资料由网络收集而来，如有侵权请告知上传者立即删除。资料共分享，我们负责传递知识。AndIsaid,"Letmeaskyousomething."Andshesaid,"Yeah."Isaid,"Doyourememberwhenwewereincollege,reallywildandkindofdumb?"Shesaid,"Yeah."Isaid,"Rememberwhenwe'dleaveareallybadmessageonourex-boyfriend'sansweringmachine?Thenwe'dhavetobreakintohisdormroomandthenerasethetape?"Andshegoes,"Uh...no."Ofcourse,theonlythingIcouldsayatthatpointwas,"Yeah,meneither.Yeah--meneither."AndI'mthinkingtomyself,"Brené,whatareyoudoing?Whydidyoubringthisup?Haveyoulostyourmind?Yoursisterswouldbeperfectforthis."SoIlookedbackupandshesaid,"AreyoureallygoingtotrytobreakinandstealthevideobeforetheyputitonYouTube?"AndIsaid,"I'mjustthinkingaboutitalittlebit."Shesaid,"You'reliketheworstvulnerabilityrolemodelever."ThenIlookedatherandIsaidsomethingthatatthetimefeltalittledramatic,butendedupbeingmorepropheticthandramatic."If500turnsinto1,000or2,000,mylifeisover."Ihadnocontingencyplanforfourmillion.Andmylifedidendwhenthathappened.AndmaybethehardestpartaboutmylifeendingisthatIlearnedsomethinghardaboutmyself,andthatwasthat,asmuchasIwouldbefrustratedaboutnotbeingabletogetmyworkouttotheworld,therewasapartofmethatwasworkingveryhardtoengineerstayingsmall,stayingrightundertheradar.ButIwanttotalkaboutwhatI'velearned.There'stwothingsthatI'velearnedinthelastyear.The此资料由网络收集而来，如有侵权请告知上传者立即删除。资料共分享，我们负责传递知识。firstis:vulnerabilityisnotweakness.Andthatmythisprofoundlydangerous.Letmeaskyouhonestly--andI'llgiveyouthiswarning,I'mtrainedasatherapist,soIcanout-waityouuncomfortably--soifyoucouldjustraiseyourhandthatwouldbeawesome--howmanyofyouhonestly,whenyou'rethinkingaboutdoingorsayingsomethingvulnerablethink,"God,vulnerabilityisweakness."Howmanyofyouthinkofvulnerabilityandweaknesssynonymously?Themajorityofpeople.Nowletmeaskyouthisquestion:ThispastweekatTED,howmanyofyou,whenyousawvulnerabilityuphere,thoughtitwaspurecourage?Vulnerabilityisnotweakness.Idefinevulnerabilityasemotionalrisk,exposure,un...
