1ContentsIntroduction....................................................................................................................71.Literature Review........................................................................................................71.1The Image of Women.........................................................................................71.2The Image of Family..........................................................................................81.3The Gaze Theory................................................................................................81.4View of Marriage................................................................................................82.The Gaze Theory.........................................................................................................92.1Self-dream and Dream-self................................................................................92.2Me and Other......................................................................................................93.Mirror-image Theory.................................................................................................103.1Place.................................................................................................................103.1.1Shanghai and Georgia............................................................................103.1.2Hongkong and Atlanta............................................................................113.2People...............................................................................................................113.2.1Bai Liusu and Scarlet..............................................................................113.2.2Fan Liuyuan and Rhett...........................................................................113.3Two Kinds of Civilizations...............................................................................113.4Love ...