Winnersdonotdedicatetheirlivestoaconceptofwhattheyimaginetheyshouldbe,rather,theyarethemselvesandassuchdonotusetheirenergyputtingonaperformance,maintainingpretenceandmanipulating(操纵)others
Theyareawarethatthereisadifferencebetweenbeinglovedandactingloving,betweenbeingstupidandactingstupid,betweenbeingknowledgeableandactingknowledgeable
Winnersdonotneedtohidebehindamask
dedicateto把时间,精力用于2
pretence虚伪,虚假6.1斤斤于字比句次,措辞生硬例2
Solitudeisanexcellentlaboratoryinwhichtoobservetheextenttowhichmannersandhabitsareconditionedbyothers
Mytablemannersareatrocious(丑恶)—inthisrespectI'veslippedbackhundredsofyearsinfact,Ihavenomannerswhatsoever(完全,全然)
IfIfeellikeit,Ieatwithmyfingers,oroutofacan,orstandingup—inotherwords,whicheveriseasiest
孤独是很好的实验室,正好适合观察一个人的举止和习惯在多大程度上受人制约如今我吃东西的举止十分粗野;这方面一放松就倒退了几百年,