IntroductionHerewetalkaboutthefamilytrainingdifferenceandsocialinfluencebetweenWesternandEastern.Dengxiaopingsays,thebasicofthemodernsocityisthetalent.thefirstschoolofthekidsisfamily.theparentsrealizefamilytrainingisveryimportant.itisabigchanllengeforhisowmtraditionalmind.sotheyintakethemindofthewestern.Whatis“culture’’?Cultureisnotsimplyknowledge,butincludesbeliefs,art,morals,andcustoms,andsoon.Theword“culture”isawordfromlatin“cultura,”whoseearliestbasicmeaningwas“cultivation,plating,crop.”(http://wenku.baidu.com)EdwardB.Tylor,thepioneerEnglishAnthropologist,pointesoutthecultureis“thatcomplexwholewhichincludesknowledge,beliefs,art,law,morals,customs,andanyothercapabilitiesandhabitsacquiredbymanasamemberofsociety.”(http://wenku.baidu.com/view/.html)Itdefinescultureasa“complexwhole”andmentionedsuchawiderangeasthatculturecovers.Asweallknow,manyexpertshavetriedtogivecultureadefinition.Nomatterhowmanydefinitionsofculturewehave,theystillhavethecommoncharacteristicsofcultureasfolows:1.Cultureislearned2.Cultureisshared3.Cultureistransmittedfromgenerationtogenetation4.Cultureissubjecttochange.Withthedevelopmentofthesociety,cultureisunavoidiablysubjecttochange.Thesechangesresultfromthedevelopmentofsocialelements.HowThechinesemovie,sunflower,chieflytellsusaboutastoryofachinesefamilyandreflectschinesepeople’seducationmethodsandvalues.theAmericanmovies,littleMissSunshine,chieflytellsusastoryaboutanamericanfamily,andreflectsatypicalmodeofAmericanfamilyeducatinoandAmericanpeople’slifestyle.thediffferecesoffamilymember’srelationshipsbetweentwocountriescanbefoundinthesetwomovies.Thechinesefatherlikepaint,butforsomehistoryreason,heisnotbecomeapainter.sohehasawish,thatcanmakehissontobeapainterinthefurture,butthesondidntlikepaint,sohemakeaargumentwithhisfatherforalongtime.whenheis19yrsold,hehasawishtoescapehisfather’scontrol,sohedosomethingwithhisownpersonalityandtemperment.anywayhefails.whenheis30yrsold,hebecomesaartistwhichmoreperfectthanhisfatherhasbeeneverthink.hegotaqualitytoaggainsttohisfather,buthehasasenceofgratefulandguilt.inotherway,thefatherunderstand,hiseducationhasaproblem.thatreflectoneis:“holdinghighhopesforchildren”inchina.Hereisalittlemisssunshines.Theamericanfamilyhas6members,theyallhaveastrangecharacter.everyonehashisshortcomings.meanwhileeveryonedidntwanttolistentoothers.sotheyalwayshasaargumentatthetable.itislastingforthedaughterhearsabeautyshow,thefamilycomestothecalm.becauseshewanttovisitshow.shefinishherdreamtringherbest.Afterdicussing,theydicidedtoaccompanyhersweetietogetherdream.ontheroad,theymeetmanydifferenttroubles,suchasthecarbroken.thatisnotonlyneedtheirskillbutalsoneedtesttheirATTITUDE.althoughthereisnotbeautifulalltheroad.buttheylearnhowtobelievetoeachother.FromherewecanseethattheAmericanone,“expectingchildren.togrowupnaturally.”Istheirmind.DisscussDengxiaopingsays,thebasicofthemodernsocityisthetalent.thefirstschoolofthekidsisfamily.theparentsrealizefamilytrainingisveryimportant.itisabigchanllengeforhisowntraditionalmind.sotheyintakethemindofthewesternTheparentsplayveryimportantroleinthefamilytraining.imitatingtheWesternfamilytrainingbecomesaboominChina,itisgoodornotforthedevelopmentofthechildrenandwhatistheinfluencetothesociality.Theparentinchinaispayingmoreattentiontotheonly-childnowdays.manychildrenincitieshavefamilytutorsandmoreand...
