ReadingComprehensionSkills------ChoosingFiveoutofSeven先学:请完成下列两题七选五，画出线索词,小组讨论设空处为什么选择该答案，使用了什么技巧。Exercise1Althoughproblemsareapartofourlives,itcertainlydoesn’tmeanthatweletthemruleourlivesforever.Onedayortheother,you’llhavetostandupandsay–problem,Idon’twantyouinmylife.1Problemswithfriends,parents,girlfriends,husbands,andchildren–thelistgoeson.Apartfromthese,theinnerconflictswithinourselveswork,too.Thesekeepaddingtoourproblems.Problemscomeindifferentshapesandcolorsandfeelings.Butgoodnewsisthatallproblemscanbedealtwith.Nowreadontoknowhowtosolveyourproblems.Talk,itreallyhelps.Whatmostofusthinkisthatourproblemcanbeunderstoodonlybyusandthatnotalkingisgoingtohelp.2Talkinghelpsyoumoveonandletgo.Writeyourproblems.3Whenyouwritedownyourproblems,youaresettingfreeallthetensionfromyoursystem.Youcantrythrowingawaythepaperonwhichyouwroteyourproblems.Bydoingthis,imagineyourselfthrowingawaytheproblemsfromyourlife.Don’tlosefaithandhope.Nomatterwhatyouloseinlife,don’tlosefaithandhope.Evenifyouloseallyourmoney,family…youshouldstillhavefaith.4Yourproblemsaren’ttheworst.Nomatterwhatproblemyougetinlife,there’reanotheronemillionpeoplewhoseproblemsarehugerthanyours.5Yourproblemsmightjustseembigandworse,butinrealitytheycanberemoved.Goaboutandsolveyourproblemsbecauseeveryproblem,howeverbigorsmall,alwayshasawayout.A.Butthetruthisthatwhenyoutalkaboutit,you’resettingfreethenegativeenergiesthathavebeengatheringwithinyou.B.Whenwehaveaproblem,apressing,critical,urgent,life-threateningproblem,howdowetryandsolveit?C.Tellyourself:whentheycandealwiththem,whycan’tI?D.Ofcourse,we’vebeenfightingproblemseversincewewereborn.E.Wecanoftenovercometheproblemandachievethegoalbymakingadirectattack.F.Havingapersonaldiarycanalsobeofhugehelpifyoudon’twantarealpersontotalkwith.G.Withfaithandhope,youcanrebuildeverythingthatyoulose.Exercise2Howtoseeyourselfobjectively（客观地）Lookingatourselvesobjectivelyisn’teasy.6HerearesometricksIusetogetamoreaccuratepictureofmyself.Lookup,notdown.It’salwayseasytomakeyourselflookgoodbyfindingpeopleevenworsethanyou.Yes,weagree,you’renottheworstpersonintheworld.That’snotthequestion.Thequestioniswhetheryoucangetbetter.7Criticize(批评)yourself.8Ifthey’rerighttobeafraid,thenyouneedtostartbyworkingonthat.Peoplewillfeelmorecomfortabletellingyouthetruthifyoustartbycriticizingyourself,showingthemthatit’sOK.Findhonestfriends.It’simportanttofindfriendswhoyoucantrusttotellyouthecrueltruthsaboutyourself.9Somepeoplehavehadsuccessprovidingananonymous(匿名的)formforfriendstowritedowntheirobjectiveopinions.10Sinceit’ssodifficulttofindfriendswhowillhonestlycriticizeyou,youneedtolistenextra-carefullywhentheydo.Forexample,ifonefriendsaystheshortstoryyouwroteisn’tverygood,youmightshowittosomeotherfriendsandaskthemwhattheythink.Wow,theyallthinkit’sgreat!Butthefactisthatmostofyourfriendsaregoingtosayit’sgreatbecausethey’reyourfriends.Byjusttakingtheirwordforit,youend1upignoringtheonepersonwho’sactuallybeinghonestwithyou.A.Taketheoutsideview.B.Listentothecriticism.C.Bewillingtobelievetheworstaboutyourself.D.Butit’snecessaryifweeverwanttogetbetter.E.Thisisreallyhardbecausemostpeopledon’tliketellingcrueltruths.F.Andtodothatyouneedtolookatthepeoplewhoareevenbetterthanyou.G.Themainreasonpeopledon’ttellyouwhattheyreallythinkofyouisthatthey’r...
