TED英语演讲：脆弱不是懦弱VIP专享

TED 英语演讲：脆弱不是懦弱 TED 演讲：脆弱不是懦弱，而是衡量勇气最准确的标尺 演讲者：Bren Brown 演讲稿 Im going to tell you a little bit about my TEDxHouston Talk. I woke up the morning after I gave that talk with the worst vulnerability hangover of my life. And I actually didnt leave my house for about three days. The first time I left was to meet a friend for lunch. And when I walked in, she was already at the table. I sat down, and she said, God, you look like hell. I said, Thanks. I feel really -- Im not functioning. And she said, Whats going on? And I said, I just told 500 people that I became a researcher to avoid vulnerability. And that when being vulnerable emerged from my data, as absolutely essential to whole-hearted living, I told these 500 people that I had a breakdown. I had a slide that said Breakdown. At what point did I think that was a good idea? And she said, I saw your talk live-streamed. It was not really you. It was a little different than what you usually do. But it was great.And I said, This cant happen. YouTube, theyre putting this thing on YouTube. And were going to be talking about 600, 700 people. And she said, Well, I think its too late. And I said, Let me ask you something. And she said, Yeah. I said, Do you remember when we were in college, really wild and kind of dumb? She said, Yeah. I said, Remember when wed leave a really bad message on our ex-boyfriends answering machine?Then wed have to break into his dorm room and then erase the tape? And she goes, Uh... no. Of course, the only thing I could say at that point was, Yeah, me neither. Yeah -- me neither. And Im thinking to myself, Bren, what are you doing? Why did you bring ...