Module1SmallTalkⅠ.SmallTalk的特点Ⅱ.Apsychologisttest—Howgoodareyoursocialskills?1．Haveyouevercrossedtheroadtoavoidtalkingtosomeoneyourecognize?Yes.()No.()2．Wouldyoulovetogotoapartyandtalkconfidentlytoeveryguest?Yes.()No.()3．Doyouwanttomakemorefriendsbutlacktheconfidencetotalktopeopleyoudon'tknow?Yes.()No.()4．Areyounervousabouttheideaofbeingatasocialeventinanothercountry?Yes.()No.()5．Areyoubraveenoughtotalktoaforeigneryoumeetinthesupermarket?Yes.()No.()开启快乐学习之旅一、SmallTalk的作用您有没有这样一种经历？在朋友的宴会上，在乘坐火车时，或在旅途中，面对陌生的朋友，出于胆怯、拘谨，相视无语，无从谈起，双方都觉得尴尬、窘迫。在这种场合下，我们需用SmallTalk技巧打破僵局(breaktheice)，如谈谈天气、讨论影视人物、议议体育运动、交流一下网络见闻等等。二、SmallTalk的步骤SmallTalk大致分为五个主要步骤：问候，引入话题，扩展话题，发出结束信号，再见。刚开始时，可以从简单的自己熟悉的话题开始，再慢慢尝试其他话题。三、SmallTalk四个基本技巧Look,Listen,Ask和Remember。常言说得好：“眼睛是心灵的窗户”，面对面交流时，“看”在SmallTalk时是绝对不可缺少的，通过看可以观察对方的身体语言，并可进行“EyeContact”；“听”对方使用的词汇和语调来理解对方的态度；“问”可以提出疑问更好地了解对方并且延伸引入的话题；“记”住交流的信息，以便将来交流时参考。模块核心素养导航Module1SmallTalkSectionⅠIntroduction&ReadingandSpeakingⅠ.重点单词1．lackv.缺乏，缺少2．nodv.点头3．impoliteadj.不礼貌的4．opportunityn.机会5．informaladj.非正式的→formaladj.正式的6．seriousadj.严肃的→seriouslyadv.严肃地7．confidentlyadv.自信地→confident(of)adj.自信的→confidence(in)n.自信8．advanceadj.预先的，在前的→advancedadj.先进的，高级的Ⅱ.核心短语1．make_friends交朋友，建立友谊2．(be)_nervous_about对……神经紧张/害怕3．think_of想起，回忆起4．body_language身体语言，肢体语言5．look_away_from把目光从……移开6．social_rules社交规则7．in_addition除此之外8．find_out了解到，找出信息9．lack_the_confidence缺少自信10．have/get/make_sth._ready做好准备11．doalittleadvanceplanning提前做好计划12．beprepared准备好13．keepgoodeyecontact保持好的目光接触14．developyourlisteningskills发展你的听力技能Ⅲ.经典句式1．而且这些(技能)是很容易学习的。Andtheyareeasytolearn.2．具有良好社交技能的人能很好地和别人交流并且知道怎样交谈。Peoplewithgoodsocialskillscommunicatewellandknowhowtohaveaconversation.3．和一个人谈论他自己，他就会和你说上几个小时。Talktoamanabouthimself,andhewillspeaktoyouforhours.课文预读HowGoodAreYourSocialSkills?Haveyouevercrossedtheroadtoavoidtalking①tosomeoneyourecognise?Wouldyoulovetogotoapartyandtalkconfidently②toeveryguest?Doyouwanttomakemorefriends③butlack④theconfidencetotalktopeopleyoudon'tknow⑤？Andareyounervousabout⑥theideaofbeingatasocialeventinanothercountry?Don'tworry—wecanhelpyou!Youneedn't⑦worryaboutsituations⑧liketheseifyouhavegoodsocialskills.Andtheyareeasytolearn⑨.Peoplewithgoodsocialskillscommunicatewellandknowhowtohaveaconversation⑩.Ithelpsifyoudoalittleadvanceplanning⑪.Hereareafewideastohelpyou.LearnhowtodosmalltalkSmalltalkisveryimportantandpreparesyouformoreseriousconversations⑫.Beprepared!Havesomelowrisk⑬conversationopenersready.Forexample：·thinkof⑭arecentnewsstory—nottooserious,e．g.astoryaboutafilmstarorsportsstar·thinkofthingstotellpeopleaboutyourstudies·thinkof“safe”thingsyoucanaskpeople'sopinionsabout⑮—music,sport,films,etc.·thinkoftopicsthatyouwouldavoidifyouweretalkingtostrangers...
