Thereisarecentsurveyconductedamonghighschoolstudentsconcernedwiththeissue“towhomdoyougowhenintrouble”.Accordingtotheresultshowninthediagram（图表）,upto58%ofthestudentswouldturntotheirclassmatesandclosefriends,agreattrendofseekingpeercareandtrust.Another33%oftheteenagerswillprefertokeeptheirworriesasecretandtrytoovercometheobstaclesontheirown.Tooursurprise,only9%wouldgototheirparentsandteacherstosharetheirworriesoraskforprofessionalguidancefromschoolconsultingagencies.Nowadays,withthefiercepressurefromschoolandparents,ourteenagers’psychologydependenceonothersismoreandmoreobviousandnecessary.Butwhywillthemostofusgotoourfriendsinsteadofparentsorteacherswhenwehavetroubleastheresultshows?Ononehand,ourparentsandteachersexpecttoomuchofus,whileatthesametimetheyarelesstolerant（容忍的）ofoursetbacks（挫折）,alwaysexpectinggreatacademicpressureonus,whichmakesusreluctanttoseekhelpfromthem.Ontheotherhands,ourfriends’adviceisagoodmeansofcommunicationaswedevelopagreatextentofmutualtrustandturningtothemwon’tsuffermuchpressure.Andformostofthetime,ourfriendswillofferquickandvaluableadvice.Then,thereissometimewhenwedon’twantanyonetoknowoursecret,sowewillkeepsilentevenwedon’tknowwhattodo,sometimesindependentthinkingwillmakeusreflectuponourpastlifeandbecomemoresober-minded(清醒的)inthefuture.YujieAsismentionedabove,Icandrawasafeconclusionthatteachersandparentsarethemosthelpfultous.ZhangmiaoIwillnothesitatetogotomyfriendswhenintrouble.SongchengjuanNodoubt,ourfriendscanalsocomfortandencourageus,however,theymaybelessconsiderateorpatientforlackofsocialexperience.factthatnobodycanlivewellwithoutcompanion.•LilantingFriendsarelamps,guidingyouindarkness.Whenyouareintrouble,theywillkeepyoucompany.•Yangchunmeionly9%ofthem,however,tendtotrusttheirteachersandparents.…Theyhaveaclearideaofwhatyouneedmost….quiteapartfromthat,friendsareofyourownage,soitisobviousthatthereisnogenerationgapasabarrier.…Iamconvincedofthe
