Thereisarecentsurveyconductedamonghighschoolstudentsconcernedwiththeissue“towhomdoyougowhenintrouble”
Accordingtotheresultshowninthediagram(图表),upto58%ofthestudentswouldturntotheirclassmatesandclosefriends,agreattrendofseekingpeercareandtrust
Another33%oftheteenagerswillprefertokeeptheirworriesasecretandtrytoovercometheobstaclesontheirown
Tooursurprise,only9%wouldgototheirparentsandteacherstosharetheirworriesoraskforprofessionalguidancefromschoolconsultingagencies
Nowadays,withthefiercepressurefromschoolandparents,ourteenagers’psychologydependenceonothersismoreandmoreobviousandnecessary
Butwhywillthemostofusgotoourfriendsinsteadofparentsorteacherswhenwehavetroubleastheresultshows
Ononehand,ourparentsandteachersexpecttoomuchofus,whileatthesametimetheyarelesstolerant(容忍的)ofoursetbacks(挫折),al