01inlifewearehappiestwhen...Amanandhisgirlfriendweremarried.Itwasalargecelebration.一个男人和他的女朋友结婚，举行了一场盛大的结婚庆典。Alloftheirfriendsandfamilycametoseethelovelyceremonyandtopartakeofthefestivitiesandcelebrations.Allhadawonderfultime.所有的朋友和家人都来到结婚典礼上参加欢宴和庆祝活动。大家都过得很开心。Thebridewasgorgeousinherwhiteweddinggownandthegroomwasverydashinginhisblacktuxedo.Everyonecouldtellthatthelovetheyhadforeachotherwastrue.穿着白色婚纱的新娘漂亮迷人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。每个人都能看出他们彼此的爱是真诚的。Afewmonthslater,thewifecametothehusbandwithaproposal,"Ireadinamagazine,awhileago,abouthowwecanstrengthenourmarriage,"sheoffered."Eachofuswillwritealistofthethingsthatwefindabitannoyingwiththeotherperson.Then,wecantalkabouthowwecanfixthemtogetherandmakeourliveshappiertogether."几个月后，妻子走近丈夫提议说：“我刚才在杂志上看到一篇文章，说的是怎样巩固婚姻。”她说：“我们两个人都各自把对方的小毛病列在一张纸上，然后我们商量一下怎样解决，以便使我们的生活更幸福。”Thehusbandagreed.Soeachofthemwenttoaseparateroominthehouseandthoughtofthethingsthatannoyedthemabouttheother.Theythoughtaboutthisquestionfortherestofthedayandwrotedownwhattheycameupwith.丈夫同意了。于是他们各自走向不同的房间去想对方的缺点。那一天余下的时间里，他们都在思考这个问题，并且把他们想到的都写下来。Thenextmorning,atthebreakfasttable,theydecidedthattheywouldgoovertheirlists.第二天早上，吃早饭的时候，他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。"I'llstart,"offeredthewife.Shetookoutherlist.Ithadmanyitemsonit,enoughtofill3pages.Infact,asshestartedreadingthelistofthelittleannoyances,shenoticedthattearswerestartingtoappearinherhusband'seyes.“我先开始吧。”妻子说。她拿出她的单子，上面列举了很多条，事实上，足足写满了三页。当她开始念的时候，她注意到丈夫眼里含着泪花。"What'swrong?"sheasked."Nothing,"thehusbandreplied,"keepreadingyourlist."“怎么啦?”她问。“没什么，”丈夫答道，“继续念吧。”Thewifecontinuedtoreaduntilshehadreadallthreepagestoherhusband.Sheneatlyplacedherlistonthetableandfoldedherhandsoverthetopofit.妻子又接着念。整整三页都念完之后她把单子整齐地放在桌上，两手交叉放在上面。"Now,youreadyourlistandthenwe'lltalkaboutthethingsonbothofourlists,"shesaidhappily.“现在该你念了，然后我们谈谈所列举的缺点。”她高兴地说。Quietlythehusbandstated,"Idon'thaveanythingonmylist.Ithinkthatyouareperfectthewaythatyouare.Idon'twantyoutochangeanythingforme.YouarelovelyandwonderfulandIwouldn'twanttotryandchangeanythingaboutyou."丈夫平静地说：“我什么也没写，我觉得像你这样就很完美了，我不想让你为我改变什么。你很可爱迷人，我不想让你改变。”Thewife,touchedbyhishonestyandthedepthofhisloveforherandhisacceptanceofher,turnedherheadandwept.妻子被丈夫的诚实和对她深深的爱和接纳感动了，她转过头去哭起来。Inlife,thereareenoughtimeswhenwearedisappointed,depressedandannoyed.Wedon'treallyhavetogolookingforthem.Wehaveawonderfulworldthatisfullofbeauty,lightandpromise.Whywastetimeinthisworldlookingforthebad,disappointingorannoyingwhenwecanlookaroundus,andseethewondrousthingsbeforeus?生命中我们有很多的失望、沮丧和烦恼，我们根本不需要寻找。我们美妙的世界充满了美丽、光明、希望。但是，当我们放眼四周时，为什么浪费时间寻找不快、失望和烦恼，而看不到我们面前的美好事物呢？02Don'tworkformoneyDon'tworkformoneyTheworldisfilledwithsmart,talented,educatedandgiftedpeople.Wemeetthemeveryday.Afewdaysago,mycarwasnotrunningwell.Ipulleditintoaga...
