III摘 要 随着社会的发展,我国的改革进入了深度调整期,社会转型带来各种问题,严重冲击着当代青年的价值观,大学生在恋爱动机、行为、道德等方面问题频现。本文分析了大学生恋爱的现状、特点以及大学生在恋爱中所凸显的恋爱目的不清楚、择偶动机不单纯、恋爱关系不持久、恋爱对象不专一、 恋爱地位不平等、恋爱行为不高雅等恋爱问题,分析其原因主要受大学生自身对恋爱的认识还不成熟、不当的家庭教育、学校教育历程中恋爱观教育不到位以及社会不良信息和价值导向等多重因素的影响。通过对这些的把握有利于为大学生树立正确的恋爱观提供价值导向。关键词:大学生,恋爱观,价值导向 Abstract With the development of society, China's reform has entered a period of deep adjustment. The social transformation has brought various problems, which have seriously impacted the values of contemporary youth. College students have frequent problems in love motivation, behavior and morality. This paper analyzes the status quo、characteristics and students highlight in love,the unclear purpose of love,the susceptibility of mate selection,the endless relationship of love,the incompatibility of love objects,the inequality of love status,and the unsatisfactory love behavior,Grasping these will help college students establish a correct view of love IVand provide value orientation.Keywords:College student, love concept, value orientation目 录摘 要..............................................................................................................IAbstract............................................................................................................II一、绪 论........................................................................................................1二、当代大学生恋爱观现状........................................................................3(一) 主要表现................................................................................................31.恋爱现象普遍存在........................