父亲给儿子的话Dear son , 亲爱的儿子: the day that you see me old and i am already not, ha ve patience and try to undestand me... 哪天你看到我渐渐老去,身体也渐渐不行,请耐着性子试着了解我... if i got dirty when eating...if i can not dress. Have patience. Remember the hours i spend teachingit to you. 如果我吃的脏兮兮...,如果我不会穿衣服...,有耐性一点...,你记得我曾花多少时间教你这些事吗? If, when i speak to you, i repeat the same things thousand and one times... do not interupt me... listen to me. 如果, 当我一再重复叙述同样的事情...不要打断我, 听我说.... When you were small, i had to read to you thousand and one times the same story until you get to sleep. 你小的时候,我必须一遍又一遍地读着同样的故事,直到你静静睡着...... when i do not want to have a sh ower, neither shame me nor scold me...当我不想洗澡,不要羞辱我也不要责骂我...... Remember when i had to chase you with thousand excuses i invented, in order that you wanted to bath.. 你记得小时侯我曾编出多少理由,只为哄你洗澡... When you see my ignorance on new technolofies...give me the necessary time and do not look at me with your mocking smile... 当你看到我对新科技的无知, 给我一点时间, 不要挂着嘲弄的微笑看着我..... I taught you how to do so many things...to eat good, to dress well..to confront life... 我曾教了你多少事情啊...如何好好的吃,好好的穿...如何面对你的生命...... when at some moment i lose the memory or the thread of our conversation,,,let me have the necessary time to remember... and if i cannot do it,do not become nervous...as the most inportant thing is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to me... 如果交谈中 我忽然失忆不知所云,给我一点时间回想...如果我还是无能为力,请不要紧张... If ever i do not want to eat, do not force me . i know well...
