与外国人初次见面沟通沟通初次见面的老外跟你说了句”How do you do", 估量多数人都会美滋滋地搬出学校教的那套,回敬一句"How do you do”
可英美人士却觉得你的回答有点买帽子当鞋穿——不对头
因为他们会觉得对话似乎没有得到回应,好像你并不兴奋见到他一样
所以,当别人说"How do you do”的时候,你最好改答"Nice to meet you"或者”It”s a pleasure to meet you”
怎么样,是不是觉得上面的小技巧还有点用处
那么,你知道怎么掌控好一个初次见面的开场白吗
还有谁先开口,说什么,怎样继续话题
要不要握手呢
别着急,我现在就告诉大家一些社交小技巧
它们可以让你在不同的场合游刃有余,沟通无极限
先来看一段 Jake 和 Debbie 之间的对话吧
大姑娘上花轿--头一回,这两个大一新生在校园里初次碰面了
JAKE: Hi
My name is Jake
We haven"t met before, have we
DEBBIE: No, we haven"t
My name is Debbie
JAKE: Nice to meet you, Debbie
DEBBIE: Nice to meet you, too, Jake
JAKE: Are you a new student
DEBBIE: Yes, I am
What about you
JAKE: Yeah, me too
JAKE: What”re you studying here
DEBBIE: Journalism
I want to be a journalist
What about you
JAKE: I"m doing law
But I”m thinking of doing business studies instead