性别成见正在误导孩子作者:ByCarolineKnorr来源:《英语学习》2019年第03期LearninggenderrolesfrommoviesandTVshowshasrealconsequencesonkids'self-esteemandrelationships.孩子從影视节目中了解到的性别角色划分确实会影响其自尊和人际关系。Genderstereotypesaremessingwithyourkid.It'snotjustonemovie.It'snotjustoneTVshow.It'sconstantexposuretothesamedatedconceptsinthemediaoverandover,startingbeforepreschoolandlastingalifetime—conceptslike:Boysaresmarterthangirls;certainjobsarebestformenandothersforwomen;andeventhatgirlsareresponsiblefortheirownsexualassaults.Accordingtoarecentreport,whichanalyzedmorethan150articles,interviews,books,andothersocial-scientificresearch,genderstereotypesinmoviesandonTVshowsaremorethanpersistent;they'reincrediblyeffectiveatteachingkidswhatthecultureexpectsofboysandgirls.Whatmakesthesemessagesstick—andharderforparentstocounteract2—isthatthey'retimedfortheprecisemomentinkids'developmentwhenthey'remostreceptivetotheirinfluence.Thinkofpreschoolerswhoarejustbeginningtoidentifyasboysorgirls.ThecharacterstheyseeonTVoftenhaveanobviousmasculineorfeminineappearance,suchasasuperhero'sbigmusclesoraprincess'longhair.Thesecharacteristicsalsoareoftenassociatedwithspecifictraits—forexample,beingstrongandbraveorfearfulandmeek3.Fast-forwardtothetweenandteenyears,whencharactersbegintowrestlewithrelationships,life,andjobprospects.4That“strongandbrave”superherobecomesaggressiveandhostile.That“fearfulandmeek”princessbecomessubmissive5andweak.Foryoungaudienceswhoabsorbideasfromthemediaonhowtobehaveandwhattobecome,thesecharacterizations6canleadtofalseassumptionsandharmfulconclusions.Theseoversimplifiedcharacterizationsplayoutinmanywaysoverandover.Accordingtothereport,alifetimeofviewingstereotypicalmediabecomessoingrained7thatitcanultimatelyaffectkids'careerchoices,self-worth,relationships,andabilitytoachievetheirfullpotential.Andlotsofparentsareconcernedabouttheseissues,too.Wepollednearly1,000parentsacrossthecountryandfoundthattheybelievethemediahasasignificantinfluenceontheirkids,fromhowgirlsshouldlookandbehavetohowseeingviolencecanaffectboys'beliefsaboutthemselves.Luckily,parentscanassertcontroloverthemessagesthatHollywooddishesout.8Because,let'sfaceit:Exaggeratingthedifferencesbetweenboysandgirlsisjustaploy9tokeepaudiencesentertained.It'snotwhatwereallywantourkidstoemulate10.WhiletherearemoviesandTVshowsthatdefy11genderstereotypes—andHollywoodismakingsomeprogressonthisfront—you'renotgoingtobeabletopreventyourkidsfromseeingeverythingthatsendsthewrongmessage.Andyourkidsprobablylikealotofmediathatreinforcesstereotypes.Fortunately,themostpowerfulmessageskidsabsorbarefromyou.Whenyouactivelyrole-modelgenderequality,speakoutagainststereotypes,andchallengeoutdatedideas,kidswillhearthatloudandclear.Also,youhavealotofcontroloveryourkids'media—mostlywhenthey'relittle,butevenastheygrow.Choosequalitymediathatreflectsyourvalues,andtalktoyourkidsaboutthemoviesandTVshowstheywatch.Usetheseage-basedstrategies—fromtoddlerhood12totheteenyears—toreachkidsattheexactmomenttheyneedtohearthem.Atthisage,kids:*Learntheirgenderidentities(thatthey'reaboyoragirl).*Learnstereotypesaboutactivities,traits,toys,andskillsassociatedwitheachgender.*Begingender-typedplay(girls“cleanthekitchen,”boys“mowthelawn”).*Needtohearyourinputinspecific,notabstract,term...