李开复给女儿的信：你该如何度过大学生涯DearDaughter:亲爱的女儿：AswedroveofffromColumbia,Iwantedtowritealettertoyoutotellyouallthatisonmymind.当我们开车驶出哥伦比亚大学的时候，我想写一封信给你，告诉你盘旋在我脑中的想法。First,Iwanttotellyouhowproudweare.GettingintoColumbiaisarealtestamentofwhatagreatwell-roundedstudentyouare.Youracademic,artistic,andsocialskillshavetrulyblossomedinthelastfewyears.WhetheritisgettingthehighestgradeinCalculus,completingyourelegantfashiondesign,successfullysellingyourpaintedrunningshoes,orbecomingoneofthetoporatorsinModelUnitedNations,youhavebecomeatalentedandaccomplishedyoungwoman.Youshouldbeasproudofyourselfasweare.首先，我想告诉你我们为你感到特别骄傲。进入哥伦比亚大学证明你是一个全面发展的优秀学生，你的学业、艺术和社交技能最近都有卓越的表现，无论是你在微积分上得了最高分，完成自己典雅的时尚的设计，成功卖出绘制的跑鞋，还是在“模拟联合国”演说中成为表现最突出的人之一，你毫无疑问已经是一个多才多艺的女孩。你的父母为你感到骄傲，你也应该像我们一样为自己感到自豪。IwillalwaysrememberthefirstmomentIheldyouinmyarms.Ifeltatinglingsensationthatdirectlytouchedmyheart.ItwasanintoxicatingfeelingIwillalwayshave.Itmustbethat"father-daughterconnection"whichwillbindusforlife.IwillalwaysremembersingingyoulullabywhileIrockedyoutosleep.WhenIputyoudown,itwasalwayswithbothrelief(shefinallyfellasleep!)andregret(wishingIcouldholdyoulonger).AndIwillalwaysremembertakingyoutotheplayground,andwatchingyouhavingsomuchfun.Youweresocuteandadorable,andthatiswhyeverybodylovedyouso.我会永远记得第一次将你抱在臂弯的那一刻，一种新鲜激动的感觉瞬间触动了我的心，那是一种永远让我陶醉的感觉，就是那种将我们的一生都联结在一起的“父女情结”。我也常常想起我唱着催眠曲轻摇你入睡，当我把你放下的时候，常常觉得既解脱又惋惜，一方面我想，她终于睡着了！另一方面，我又多么希望自己可以多抱你一会儿。我还记得带你到运动场，看着你玩得那么开心，你是那样可爱，所有人都非常爱你。Youhavebeenagreatkideversinceyouwereborn,alwaysquiet,empathetic,attentive,andwell-mannered.Youwerethreewhenwebuiltourhouse.Irememberyouquietlyfolloweduseveryweekendformorethantenhoursadaytogetbuildingsupplies.Youputupwiththatboringperiodwithoutafuss,happilyatehamburgerseverymealinthecar,sangwithBarneyuntilyoufellasleep.WhenyouwenttoSundayChineseschool,youstudiedhardeventhoughitwasnofunforyou.Icannotbelievehowluckyweareasparentstohaveadaughterlikeyou.你不但长得可爱，而且是个特别乖巧的孩子。你从不吵闹、为人着想，既听话又有礼貌。当你三岁我们建房子的时候，每个周末十多个小时你都静静地跟着我们去运建筑材料，三餐在车上吃着汉堡，唱着儿歌，唱累了就睡觉，一点都不娇气不抱怨。你去上周日的中文学习班时，尽管一点也不觉得有趣，却依然很努力。我们做父母的能有像你这样的女儿真的感到非常幸运。Youhavebeenanexcellenteldersister.Eventhoughyoutwohadyourshareoffights,thelastfewyearsyouhavebecomebestfriends.Yoursisterlovesyousomuch,andshelovestomakeyoulaugh.Shelooksuptoyou,andseesyouasherrolemodel.Asyousawwhenwedeparted,shemissesyousomuch.AndIknowthatyoumissherjustasmuch.Thereisnothinglikefamily,andotherthanyourparents,yoursisteristheonepersonwhoyoucantrustandconfidein.Shewillbetheonetotakecareofyou,andtheoneyoumusttakecareof.Thereisnothingwewishmorethanthatyoursisterhoodwillcontinuetobondasyougrowolder,andthatyouwilltakecareofeachotherthroughoutyourlives.Forthenextfouryears,dohaveashortvideochatwithhereveryfewdays,anddoemailherwhenyouhaveachance.你也是个很好...
