12016年新课标高考英语备考Youaregivenmanychancesinlifetochoosetobeavictim(受害者)orcreator
Whenyouchoosetobeavictim,theworldisacoldanddifficultplace
“They”didthingstoyouwhichcausedallofyourpainandsuffering
“They”arewrongandbad,andlifeisterribleaslongas“they”arearound
Oryoumayblameyourselfforallyourproblems,theninternalizing(内化)yourvictimization
Thetruthis,yourlifeislikelytostaythatwayaslongasyoufeelaneedtoblameyourselforothers
Thosewhochoosetobecreatorslookatlifequitedifferently
Theyknowtherearepersonswhomightliketocontroltheirlives,buttheydon’tletthisgetintheway
Theyknowtheyhavetheirweaknesses,yettheydon’tblamethemselveswhentheyfail
Whateverhappens,theyhavechoiceinthematter
Theybelievetheirdancewitheachsacred(神圣的)momentoflifeisagiftandthatstormsareanaturalpartoflifewhichcanbringtherainneededforemotiona