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美文赏析去经历去体验做最真实的自己Trulyhappyandsuccessfulpeoplegetthatwaybybecomingthebest,mostgenuineversionofthemselvestheycanbe.Notontheoutside--ontheinside.It'snotaboutabrand,areputation,apersona.It'saboutreality.Whoyoureallyare.真正快乐成功的人会长成最好最真实的自己——从内心而非外表上。重要的不是品牌、名誉或者外表形象，而是真实的自我。Soundssimple,Iknow.Itisasimpleconcept.Theproblemis,it'sveryhardtodo,ittakesalotofwork,anditcantakealifetimetofigureitout.道理很简单，讲出来也很容易。但问题是，做起来就不简单了：这需要付诸很多努力，甚或一辈子才能实现。Nothingworthdoinginlifeisevereasy.Ifyouwanttodogreatwork,it'sgoingtotakealotofhardworktodoit.Andyou'regoingtohavetobreakoutofyourcomfortzoneandtakesomechancesthatwillscarethecrapoutofyou.需要穷尽毕生精力的事情必定不容易。成大事者必先苦其心志。因此，你必须走出舒适区，去经历、去体验那些会让你害怕的机会。Butyouknow,Ican'tthinkofabetterwaytospendyourlife.Imean,what'slifeforifnotfindingyourselfandtryingtobecomethebest,mostgenuineversionofyouthatyoucanbe?况且，人这一辈子，若到头来都认不清自己、未能长成最好最真实的自己，还有什么意义呢？That'swhatSteveJobsmeantwhenhesaidthisataStanfordUniversitycommencementspeech:正如史蒂夫-乔布斯在斯坦福大学的毕业典礼上所言：Yourtimeislimited,sodon'twasteitlivingsomeoneelse'slife.Don'tletthenoiseofothers'opinionsdrownoutyourowninnervoice.时间宝贵，不要虚掷光阴过着他人的生活。不要让周遭的聒噪言论蒙蔽你内心的声音。Youhavetotrustthatthedotswillsomehowconnectinyourfuture.Youhavetotrustinsomething--yourgut,destiny,life,karma,whatever.Thisapproachhasneverletmedown,andithasmadeallthedifferenceinmylife.你要相信，生活中的偶然冥冥中也能指引未来。你要心怀信念——相信你的直觉、命运、生活抑或因缘。这个方法一直给我力量，促使我过得卓然不同。Theonlywaytodogreatworkistolovewhatyoudo.Ifyouhaven'tfoundityet,keeplooking.Don'tsettle.成大事的唯一途径就是做自己喜欢的事情。若你还没找到，那就继续追寻吧，不要停下来。Now,let'sforamomentberealisticaboutthis.Insightfulasthatadvicemaybe,itsoundsalittletooamorphousandchallengingtoresonatewithtoday'squick-fixculture.Thesedays,ifyoucan'ttellpeopleexactlywhattodoandhowtodoit,itfallsondeafears.现在我们来实际一点：建议或许很深刻，但听完却让人无从着手，难以运用到当今的快节奏文化中。现如今，如果一个建议讲不清具体做什么、该怎么做的话，那么说了也等于白说。Notonlythat,butwhatJobswastalkingabout,whatI'mtalkingabout,requiresfocusanddiscipline,twothingsthatareveryhardtocomebythesedays.Why?Because,focusanddisciplinearehard.It'ssomucheasiertogiveintodistractionandinstantgratification.Easyandaddictive.不仅如此，乔布斯的讲话和我要说的话都需要集中和自制——这两个品质在当今社会非常难能可贵。何以见得？因为集中和自制都不容易做到。人们很容易分散注意力、寻求即时快感——舒服且容易上瘾。Togiveyoualittleincentivetotakeonthechallenge,toembarkontheroadtoself-discovery,herearethreehugebenefitsfromworkingtobecomethebest,mostgenuineversionofyourself.为激励你迎接挑战、踏上寻求自我的旅途，我列出了成为最好最真实自己后的三大益处：Itwillmakeyouhappy.Gettingtoknowyourselfwillmakeyoufeelmorecomfortableinyourownskin.Itwillreduceyourstressandanxiety.Itwillmakeyouabetterspouse,abetterparent,abetterfriend.Itwillmakeyouabetterperson.Thoseareallprettygoodreasons,ifyouaskme.你会感到快乐。了解自己后会让你更愉悦地接受自己，减轻你的压力和焦虑，使你成为更好的伴侣、父母、朋友，让你成为一个更美好的人。这些益处难道不够说服你为之努力吗？Besides,youreallywon'tachieveanythingsignificantinlifeuntilyouknowtherealyou.Notyourbrand,yourLinkedInprofile,howyoucomeacross,orwhatanyonethinksofyou.Thegenuineyou.There'sonesimplereasonwhyyoushouldn'ttrytobesomethingyou'renot,andit'sthatyoucan't.Therealyouwillcomeoutanyway.Soforgetyourpersonalbrandandstartspendingtimeonfiguringoutwhoyoureallyareandtryingtobecomethebestversionofthatyoucanbe.而且，只有了解真实的自己方能成就大事。你需要了解那个真实的你，而不是你的品牌、名誉、LinkedlIn资料、你的过去抑或他人对你的看法。为什么你不应该过他人的生活？很简单，因为首先你不是“其他人”，你的本性总有一天会现形。所以，请放开你的品牌形象，努力发掘真实自我、努力把自己经营成最好的自己吧