1Goodcommunicationisvitalinmodernsociety.Weknowthatmuchofthecommunicationisunspoken.Consciouslyorunconsciously,weshowourtruefeelingswithoureyes,faces,bodiesandattitudes.Yourgoodqualitiescanmakegoodcommunication.Thepersonalqualitiesinclude:physicalappearance,energy,rateofspeech,pitchandtoneofvoice,gestures,expressivenessofeyes,andtheabilitytoholdtheinterestofothers.Whatshouldwedosothatourcommunicationwillbeeffective?Herearemysuggestions.Firstly,youshouldbeyourself.Thetrickistobeconsistentlyyou,atyourbest.Themosteffectivepeopleneverchangecharacterfromonesituationtoanother.They’rethesamewhetherthey’rehavingaconversationwiththeirclosefriends,addressingtheirgardencluborbeinginterviewedforajob.Theycommunicatewiththeirwholebeing.Secondly,whetheryou’retalkingtoonepersonoronehundred,alwaysremembertolookatthem.Don’tbreakeyecontactwhiletalking.Asyouenteraroom,moveyoureyescomfortably,thenlookdirectlyatthoseintheroomandsmile.Thisshowsclearlythatyouareatease.Smilingisimportant.Thebesttypeofsmileandeyecontactisgentleandcomfortable,notforced.Youshouldalsoabsorbotherpeoplebeforeshowingyourself.Youcan’tlearnanythingwhenyoutalk.Whenyouattendameeting,apartyoraninterview,don’timmediatelystartthrowingyouropinions.Stopforasecond.Absorbwhat’sgoingon.What’sthemoodoftheothers—aretheydown,up,happy,expectant?Aretheyeagertolearnfromyou,ordotheyshowresistance?Ifyoucansensewhat’shappeningwithothers,youwillbebetterabletoreachthem.So,listenbeforeyoutalk.Thefourthsuggestionisthatyoufocusyourenergy.Howdoyougetyourenergyup?Beforethemeeting,collectyourthoughtsaboutthegoalofthemeeting—yoursandtheother’s.Onceyougothroughthedoorway,nolongerthinkaboutyourself.Focusonthepersonyouaremeetingtofindoutwhatheisinterestedin.Properlycollectedenergycomesacrosswhenwesincerelybelievesomething.Whenyouspeakwithenergy,youareinvolvedwithyouraudienceandyourmessage.Youcreateanairofcertainty.Theaudiencemaydisagreewithyou,buttheycan’tquestionyourbelief.Lastly,Iwouldliketoremindyouthatyoushouldlightenup.Takeagoodhardlookatyourself.Doyousay“I”toooften?Areyouonlyconcentratedonyourownproblems?Doyoucomplainfrequently?If1youansweredyestoevenoneofthesequestions,youneedtobemorerelaxed.Howtocommunicate(71)▲SuggestionsDosDon’tsBeyourselfAlwaysbethesameandcommunicatewithyourwholebeing.Changecharacterin(72)▲situations.UseyoureyesandsmilelMakedirecteyecontact.lPresentagentleandcomfortable(73)▲.lBreakeyecontact.l(74)▲yourselftosmile.Listenbefore(75)▲Stopforashorttimetoknowtheothers’moodandwhatishappeningwiththem.Beginyourtalkimmediately.Focusyour(76)▲lRemain(77)▲andthinkclearlyandcarefullybeforethemeeting.lFocusonthepersonyou’remeeting.Thinkaboutyourself.LightenupTrytobe(78)▲.lSay“I”toooften.lConcentrateonyourownproblems.lMaketoo(79)▲complaint.ConclusionGoodcommunication(80)▲ongoodpersonalqualities.1.effectively/well2.different3.smile4.Force5.talking6.energy7.calm8.relaxed9.much10.depends2Homeworkisagreatwayforkidstodevelopindependent,lifelonglearningskills,soherearesomegeneralhomeworktipsforparents:●Makesureyourchildhasaquiet,well-litplacetodohomework.Avoidhavingyourchilddohomeworkwiththetelevisiononorinplaceswithotherdistractions,suchaspeoplecomingandgoing.●Makesurethematerialsyourchildneeds,suchassomepaper,pencilsandadictionary,areavailable.2Askyourchildifspecialmaterialswillbeneededforsomeprojectsandgetthem...
