In the 1960s, medical researchers Thomas Holmes and Richard Rahe developed a checklist of stressful events
They appreciated the tricky point that any major change can be stressful
Negative events like “serious illness of a family member” were high on the list, but so were some positive life-changing events, like marriage
When you take the Holmes-Rahe test you must remember that the score does not reflect how you deal with stress—it only shows how much you have to deal with
And we now know that the way you handle these events dramatically affects your chances of staying healthy
By the early 1970s, hundreds of similar studies had followed Holmes and Rahe
And millions of Americans who work and live under stress worried over the reports
Somehow the research got boiled down to a memorabl