I am frequently asked the question, ”Can you use chopsticks
I have lived in Korea, Japan, and China
In each country, I have, more often than not and without having requested one, been given a fork when one was available
I have politely refusde and said that I would be fine with chopsticks
Sometimes, I have to make further explanation
Chopsticks are the least of my worries when I am eating in an Asian home or restaurant
In fact, learning how to use chopsticks takes me nothing but a few weeks
This is not to say I was skillful, though
Learning how to use chopsticks is easy for me, whereas learning the rituals and how to conduct myself at the table is quite difficult
Just how many times do I have to say “no, thank you” when I really mean “no, thank you, I truly am full”
How do I ge