倾听是一剂良药“没有人有耐心听你讲完自己的故事,因为每个人都有自己的话要说;没有人喜欢听你抱怨生活,因为每个人都有自己的苦痛;世人多半寂寞,这世界愿意倾听,习惯沉默的人,难得几个
我再也不想对别人提起自己的过往,那些挣扎在梦魇中的寂寞,荒芜,还是交给时间,慢慢淡漠
”——几米 Studies have shown it takes a physician about 18 seconds to interrupt a patient after they begin talking
研究证明,医患开始交谈后,医生会在大概 18 秒后打断病人的谈话
It was Sunday
I had one last patient to see
I approached her room in a hurry and stood at the doorway
She was an older woman, sitting at the edge of the bed, struggling to put socks on her swollen feet
I crossed the threshold, spoke quickly to the nurse, scanned her chart noting she was in stable condition
I was almost in the clear
那是一个周日,我要去见最后一位病人
我匆匆忙忙地走向她的病房,站到了门口
病人是位老妇人,此时她正坐在床沿上努力为自己浮肿的双脚穿上袜子
我跨进屋,快速和护士进行了交流,然后看了看病人的病历表
根据表格上的记录,她目前状况稳定
一套程序下来,我几乎没遇到什么困难
I leaned on the bedrail looking down at her